skyped with someone for the first time. It went well I want to take it slower this time to enjoy it. He is willing to wait too so that is a good sign. :)

"The United States is a racist country and because of that, I, as a white person, am the beneficiary of power and privileges that have an adverse effect on citizens of color"

what every white person must admit to as a starting point

http://www.thenation.com/blog/172925/white-people-have-give-racism?rel=tumblr#

I know I have lived here 11 years and often I just say “oh yeah I live there” but today I got all existential about it and thought about how it has become a part of my identity. I often think of other states but never really think of my own state because I am here already. I mean I talk about moving out but will Virginia ever move out of me? Good questions as I move into another part of my life soon.

Finally some great boots and a beautiful flag haha

Until I make a solid memory of Indiana, I am not counting it. So now I am down to 48 statesĀ visitedĀ (Alaska I have never set foot in)

Significant number I have to say. lol